You may have noticed a lack of posting for the last month or so. I'm so sorry about that. We wanted to post, we talked about posting, and we've felt guilty about not posting. To be honest we didn't know if anyone was still reading this or participating, we got busy with looking for work and moving to a new city, and we just got tired. This has been a lot of work (we've loved it) and we didn't get to see a lot of the results. We pray that there have been good results in lots of marriages, we know that our marriage has benefited from having these weekly conversations.